| JOEY'S STORY SPECIAL EDITION
- Continued
Divine Intervention
But now Joey was back home in Lindenhurst, Long Island. The trip
half way around the world was completed. Before that there had been
the trip to Ireland, and the rapidly growing international apostolate.
The year 1977 was a difficult one for Joey. His
hectic travel schedule was taking its toll on his health and he
became aware he was losing his hearing. There was a shortage of
volunteers at the Center to help with the workload of his expanding
apostolate and his once prosperous business was in the throes of
reorganization. Joey was troubled by what was happening. But in
the midst of all this, he was preparing for one of the biggest moments
in his life.
Joey was getting married! How did this happen?
Where did he find the time? Again God had intervened in Joey’s
life in a very special, a most extraordinary way. This was a marriage
“made in heaven” and he knew it.
Earlier in the year, Joey had received a sign.
He did not know exactly what this one meant; he had received such
signs before. As he rode to his business office in the city each
day he told his sister, Frances, several times that the name “Luther”
and “Michigan” kept coming to his mind. Previously when
a particular name continually came to him, he would pray for that
person. Eventually he would meet them and whatever their situation
was they would usually end up working with him for the Blessed Mother.
Weeks went by and this name continued coming to him. It became like
a gentle nudge on his shoulder. “But,” recalls Joey,
“the person didn’t show up.”
It was a typical summer evening in July 1977,
when the annual Joey Lomangino tour of fifty-plus people was assembling
at JFK Airport in New York City. Joey began these tours when so
many Garabandalists wanted to accompany him to Garabandal. This
time it included Marian shrines. As Joey had not had time to check
over the passenger list, his secretary, Rosemarie Melunchuk, introduced
him to each passenger, in turn, mentioning the state they came from.
Half way around the Pan Am conference room where they were assembled,
Joey heard, “This is Mary Luther and her daughter, Marilynn,
from Michigan.”
“There it is,” thought Joey, Luther
and Michigan! But he felt too weary to talk to then, so he decided
that later, after he had had a rest, he would persue the story.
“Marilynn Luther came from Detroit, Michigan,
the second oldest of the children of Maurice and Mary Luther. Mr.
Luther had died in 1960 of cancer at age 51, leaving his wife with
their ten children (two were babies in diapers and several were
still small). Marilynn, now at age 37, had an excellent position
with General Motors Corporation and lived at home with the family.
This was her first pilgrimage, though she had traveled abroad previously.
Her mother had been an ardent Garabandal promoter since 1964 and
longed to visit Garabandal, particularly with Joey’s tour.
When Marilynn became aware of her mother’s wish she decided
to sell her paid-off car and take her mother on the trip. This brought
Marilynn into the Garabandal picture and her first meeting with
Joey Lomangino.
When the plane touched down in France, Joey knew
that this would be an outstanding tour. All the places he loved
were included: the Shrine of the Miraculous Medal in Paris, St.
Bernadette in Nevers, Lourdes, Garabandal, and Fatima. But he did
not know that the meeting that had already taken place in JFK Airport
would result in an irrevocable change in the direction of his life.
It was at Lourdes that Joey decided to pursue
“Luther and Michigan.” Right away he liked Mary Luther,
the mother as she talked and laughed with him. She was an Irish
mother (her maiden name was Lynch). She told him about her family,
her husband who was of German and Irish descent and how, when he
had died seventeen years earlier, her whole family had stayed together,
and that there were eight still single living at home. She had that
deep faith that Joey had seen in Ireland – she knew how to
carry her cross. Joey was deeply impressed and continued to talk
with her.
On the other hand, the daughter seemed very quiet.
“She didn’t talk,” Joey recalls. Actually she,
too, was tired and had come on the trip for a good rest and spiritual
refreshment. Joey and Marilynn spoke briefly in Lourdes and then
the group moved on to Garabandal, where the two became friends.
Leaving Garabandal, they attended Mass in Cosio together. The group’s
next stop was Fatima. Each evening after dinner, as was the custom,
everyone would assemble for a walk and a rosary. This evening perhaps
due to the lateness of the hour, only Marilynn stayed with Joey
for the rosary. When they had finished, they sat down on a stone
bench and began to talk.
“All of a sudden, I knew I was looking at
my wife. All the things that had kept me single for so long were
lifted and I knew this was the girl who would share the rest of
my life. I said, “Marilynn, I want to marry you!”
She was dumbfounded and replied, “Marry
you? I don’t even know you!”
“What do you want to know?” Joey said.
“I’ll tell you anything you want to know.”
Marilynn said she wouldn’t say “no”
to his proposal – that she would think it over.
The final three days in Fatima were very happy
ones. Marilynn had told Joey that she wanted to make her decision
in her own home. She wanted to be sure that this was God’s
will. Her mother had told Joey that she had perceived he was interested
in her daughter and had said, “If you’re holy, Joey,
everything works unto good. It’s Marilynn’s decision
and whatever she decides is alright with me.”
Back in Michigan
Upon arriving home, Marilynn went to her room and soon fell asleep.
About 2:00 a.m. she woke up. All the things Joey had told her were
going through her mind. She slipped her hand under her pillow and
pulled out her rosary. Praying, she fell asleep again.
Gardening was Marilynn’s hobby. The yard
was filled with flowers; there was a shrine to Our Lady with nine
Michigan pines. Sleeping, Marilynn began to dream. She found herself
looking down upon a beautiful garden; all of the flowers were in
bloom at their peak. As she watched, she noticed a gardener, he
was transparent – she could see the colors of the flowers,
right through his body. He started working around one flower, digging
very gently. It was a tall Easter lily with on white bloom at the
top. The gardener took the plant in his hands and gently moved it
over to another garden, equally as beautiful, but with different
flowers – different colors. He placed the lily in the ground
that was already prepared, patted the earth securely around it and
disappeared. “The last thing I remember in the dream, “
said Marilynn, “was the lily standing just as strong in the
new garden as in the old one.” When Marilynn awoke, she knew
without a doubt that it was God’s will that she should marry
Joey and that everything would work out smoothly.
She
called Joey to tell him she would marry him. She told him about
her dream. “Joey,” she said, “The lily is me.
The old garden is my home and the new one is yours. I am being moved
from one place to another and am being shown that it will be a smooth
and easy move.” Joey said, “ And the gardener –
that’s God.”
They set a date and were married on December 8,
1977 – a special day for them, and for Our Lady – the
Feast of the Immaculate Conception.
Taking Up the International
Directorship
After his marriage, Joey took his wife with him to complete his
pre-arranged travel schedule. They worked together in Joey’s
office, and gave weekend conferences in many parts of the United
States.
In May 1978, they toured Ireland, England, and
Scotland and were warmly received at the numerous gatherings and
lectures.
Great preparations and much prayer preceded the
First International Congress on Garabandal held at Lourdes in August
of 1978. Twenty-six countries were represented and both Joey and
Marilynn were scheduled speakers at this event. The results of that
Congress opened a new phase in the spread of the Message.
The activities of the New York Center urgently
demanded Joey’s attention. As far back as 1976 it had been
suggested by Joey’s spiritual advisor that he should:
1. Channel his energies into his international
correspondence to establish new centers throughout the world.
2. Keep in close contact with, and encourage, promoters at home.
3. Update the Garabandal magazine and improve its circulation.
But these changes took time to implement.
July 16, 1978, was the last of Joey’s public
conferences. Becoming an involved and active International Director,
he found himself more and more behind the desk. Each issue of GARABANDAL
Magazine reports on this work, and through Joey’s constant
attention, the Message continues to be spread.
At home, Joey’s joy was to be complete with
the birth of two sons. Joseph Michael, born May 18, 1979, and John
Paul, born September 17, 1981. Needless to say the boys are the
“apple of his eye” and they accompany their daddy to
special occasions at the New York Center whenever an opportunity
presents itself.
Today, Joey’s responsibility for rebuilding
his business and providing for his family, no longer affords him
the time to travel as he used to do, planting the seeds of the Garabandal
Message. But his efforts are well directed toward nurturing those
seeds and furthering the work of Garabandal International.
Occasionally, long journeys are taken to establish
new centers. One was February 1982, when Joey flew to the other
side of the world, to New Zealand. He was welcomed by clergy and
laity alike and the hall was filled to capacity on both days to
hear the Garabandal speakers.
In December of that year, Joey conducted a family
pilgrimage to the Shrine of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico to honor
the Blessed Mother, and where both his family and the tour group
could view at first hand the miraculous image of the Virgin on Juan
Diego’s cloak.
In the fall of 1980, the British Broadcasting
Corporation, at the urging of the London Garabandal Center and with
Joey’s support and encouragement, produced a documentary on
Garabandal. The result was an award winning thirty-two minute film
that has already been shown three times by the BBC throughout the
United Kingdom and also on national TV in New Zealand. Private showings
have been held in the United States and other countries.
In Austrailia, things were not a standstill either.
The Austrailian government’s official television network,
ABC, sent producer Peter Wilkinson to Joey in New York and to Garabandal,
to film a segment for the Austrailian “60 Minutes” program.
“After the telecast, the switchboard lit up like a Christmas
tree,” reported John Leriou , Austrailian Garabandal promoter,
“and we ran out of every piece of literature we had.”
In February 1985, Joey attended the Austrailian
National Conference on Garabandal. It was held in Canberra, the
capital city, and participants came from all parts of Austrailia,
Papua New Guinea and Tonga in the South Pacific.
A
CONSOLING DREAM
It was early in 1965, Joey was at home in
Lindenhurst lying on the couch saying his rosary. Meditating, these
words kept coming to him – dream – trees – Garabandal
– dream – Garabandal – trees – dream. .
. .His mind went back to May, 1949, he had just been registered
at Blind School.
He was unhappy in this
strange place, with his blindness–he didn't want it. He was
alone, he missed his family, and he knew they were suffering. Joey
had been put in the infirmary for orientation. He waited, he listened,
he knew he was alone. After a while, he got up, began to take a
few steps, then a few more–the door–way. Cautiously,
he made his way down the hallway but then, without realizing it,
passed through an open exit door and fell down a flight of stairs.
Not wanting to cause an alarm, he quickly crawled up the stairs
and clung to the wall searching for the doorway opening. Hurt, scared,
lonely and frustrated, he laid on his bed, took out his rosary and
then began to cry. He cried himseld to sleep.
Joey recalls this
dream:
"I saw what I thought was a beautiful
golf course, lush green grass, rolling hills, a clump of trees behind
me and I was standing there, looking up. There was something going
on up in the heavens. I had my eyes back–and they were blue."
"When I awoke I felt comforted by what I saw. Although I was
scared, I knew in time I would be all right. This thought substained
me as I started a new life in a blind world and I had the courage
to make the most of every opportunity that would come to me."
It was only 1965, after
all those years, that Joey was to connect this consoling dream with
the Garabandal events.
*Joey remembers his consoling dream.
It was 16 years later when he realized that the place in the dream
was Garabandal.
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